Difference Between a Proxy Marriage Ceremony and an Online/Virtual Wedding Ceremony
Proxy weddings, where one or both partners are not physically present for the ceremony, allow for a unique approach to marriage. This type of wedding often involves one partner being represented by a surrogate, who stands in during the exchange of vows. Commonly used in situations where a partner is unable to attend due to distance, military service, or other commitments, proxy weddings can still carry deep meaning and connection. While not universally recognized, couples considering this option should research the legal requirements in their jurisdiction to ensure their marriage is valid and celebrated in the way they envision.
Virtual wedding ceremonies held over video calls offer couples a unique way to celebrate their love despite physical distances. With the rise of technology, couples can invite friends and family from around the world to witness their vows in real-time, creating an intimate atmosphere even across screens. These ceremonies allow for personal touches, such as custom backgrounds or shared playlists, that reflect the couple's personality. Additionally, virtual weddings can be cost-effective and logistically simpler, making it easier to focus on the heartfelt moments that matter most. As more couples embrace this modern approach, virtual ceremonies are becoming a cherished alternative to traditional gatherings.
Virtual Wedding
Virtual weddings are wedding ceremonies are conducted with one or more of the couple, officiant, and/or witnesses are not in the same geographic location. All parties and guests meet on an online video chat platform, such as Zoom.
Virtual wedding ceremony held over video conference call. Guests and participants can be located anywhere in the world.
Proxy Wedding
Proxy weddings are in person wedding ceremonies conducted with a proxy (standin) for either the bride or groom. Double proxy wedding is when both the bride and groom have a stand in. The couple and the officiant are not in the same geographic location. The couple participates in the ceremony via video chat and speak for themselves. The stand in bride and/or groom exchange rings.
Important Similarity
Bride and groom participate via an online video platform and speak for themselves.
Bride and groom can be but do not need to be in the same location.
Both types of ceremony are officiated by an officiant in Utah.
Both result in a marriage certificate that does NOT mention online, virtual, proxy, or any indication the marriage ceremony was in anyway different than any other wedding ceremony.
An Apostille is required before another country will recognize any marriage that takes place in the US. Notable exceptions are Canada, Mexico, and the UK; which do not require any additional documentation.
Important Differences
Some countries recognize proxy marriages but do NOT recognize virtual marriages. Some countries will accept a proxy marriage but NOT a double proxy marriage. It is important to know the marriage laws in any country you want your marriage to be accepted in. For example, Germany accepts proxy marriages but not virtual weddings.
Proxy ceremonies involve more people; they require a standin for the bride and/or the groom.
